13 December 2015

Save Yourself - Get Over Somebody Who Doesn't Love You

If someone loves you then they do. If they don’t then they don’t. That’s it. 

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However, it is utterly painful to forget someone who doesn’t love you.
It’s hard to see that your LOVE is not returning the feelings to you.
If someone doesn’t have any feeling for you, it is hard to make them love you at all.
Moreover, if that person loves someone else then it is truly hard to make them love you.
Therefore, it is better to forget them and move on. 

So how can you forget someone who doesn’t love you? Follow these tips.
1) Forgive yourself and then love yourself –
The first step you need to take is to forgive yourself. It may be possible that your LOVE made you feel bad about yourself because you loved them.
However, it is not your fault to love someone. You need to make yourself believe that you didn’t make any mistake by loving that person.
Thereafter, you need to forgive yourself if you believe that you made some mistakes which made that person not to love you back.
Once you forgive yourself, you need to start loving yourself for what you are. At first, it will not be that easy.
However you can come up with a list of your good traits which will help you to feel good. 

2) Learn the correct way to deal with romantic rejections –
Rejections from the loved ones normally trigger a response which is very similar to withdrawing symptoms of a drug addict.
Loving someone who doesn’t love is also like taking a drug. You take drugs which weaken your body and willpower.
Likewise, you love that person just to make you feel worse.

3) Understand that you can’t control them –
It is important to understand that you can’t bully someone to like you back, can you? The other person has the same freedom as you have.
There is only one person in this world on which you can have full control. And that person is you.
Instead of trying to control the other person, you should try to control your own emotions.
Don’t allow yourself to think about THAT person. Don’t dwell over past. Control your emotions and then you will be able to forget THAT person. 

4) Invest your time on something else instead of seeing that person –
It is advised to avoid that person as much as possible. Give yourself some space and invest your time on the other activities which don’t require THAT person.
You have made them a part of your life. Now you need to take steps to cut them off from your life. That’s the way to forget them and become happy. 

5) Give a good channel to your emotions –
Don’t make yourself full of bad emotions. This is an unhealthy act considering psychology.
Most people feel a great relief right after crying. Crying is a method of your body and mind to release some unwanted and bad emotions.
Don't keep unwanted and bad emotions with yourself for a long time. Instead, give them a channel to come out from you.
For this you can express your real emotions to yourself. Or you can also express your emotions to someone who loves you like your relatives and friends. 

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